Okay, after working on all the things you guys and I could think of, I'm no closer to a solution than when I started. Here is what I do know. The solenoid
in the electrical bay is working perfectly. While in the elec. bay I opened the black Allison relay box and checked both fuses and checked for 12 volts on said fuses with ignition on. All good. There are no fuses in the cavity under the shift pad and as I mentioned the black Allison box is down in the electrical bay.
I should also mention while in the electrical bay and with the key on, I checked everything except the relays for 12 volts and all good.
Back in the battery bay I checked everything with a fuse including the relay tray and all fuses were good. In hind sight I probably should have checked for voltage as well. As Steve suggested C43 pin 1, many of the writing on the connectors has rubbed off so I can't identify C43. Maybe you could describe it another way. There are older threads of similar problems but they fixed theirs. However I read something regarding a solenoid similar to the one in the electrical bay that's way behind the batteries and almost impossible to get to. With the key on I checked for voltage but either solenoid is not working or wasn't actuated since I don't know what it goes to. Maybe one of you will know. If C43 is the coupling to the shift pad that is my next thing I will be checking
directly at the pad as it is still dark. I suspect I could HOT wire a lead from the ignition to the pad with a fuse but I think I'll save that for a last resort.
I eagerly await your next suggestions. And once again, thank you all!