Stan - I'll assume your inverter is the Xantrex Freedom 3000w PSW like mine and you have a remote panel. On the remote panel, there are four buttons beneath the screen. The right button says "FUNC". When you push that button, you will see the bottom line on the screen change. Push the "FUNC" button until you see that lower line near the screen's center says "PSnnA" where the nn is a number from 05 to 30 in increments of 5. That is your inverter's Power Share function. You can change your Power Share designation by using the middle two buttons, the up and down arrows, such that your inverter will not pull more than nn amps from your shore power cord or generator. In my case, I change my Power Share designation to 20 or 25 when I am dry-camping and using my Honda 3000w generator. By making this Power Share change you are telling your inverter it can pull no more power from the generator or shore power than the amperage you have designated. If you turn on an electrical device, such as an induction cooktop, microwave, hair dryer, etc., that is powered through an inverter circuit, then the inverter will supply its full power requirement by sharing the power demanded between the shore or generator and the house batteries. For example, if you have your Power Sharing set on PS10A and turn on the microwave, then your inverter will pull up to 10 amps from the generator or shore power and the remainder of the microwave's demand, about 7 or 8 amps probably, will be drawn from the house batteries. When your power demand, vis-a-vis, the microwave in this example, return to a lower demand when the microwave has shut off, then your inverter will recharge your house batteries at a slow rate by using the 10 amp limit from the generator or shore power.
Note that not all electrical devices are powered through your inverter. Examples are the air conditioners and heat pumps. Your inverter does not "see" such devices, so their power demand is not counted against the Power Share limitation.