Steve,
Yesterday along with the big box stores, a local plumbing supply store, trailer parts store, and several RV repair shops, I went to the Ace Hardware in Titusville and Travis Hardware in Cocoa. In addition, I posted a query with Beaver Coach Sales.
You are correct, I should have posted multiple pictures of the 18 year old rubber beveled washer/seal. However I reinstalled the existing washer and, at least for now, no leaks. So, I am a little reluctant to pull everything apart again.
From a verbal stand point the washer looks like a 1/4 inch thick flat washer with a cone washer attached to one side. It's milky white in color and a soft rubber texture. Keep in mind the purpose is to maintain a water tight seal for a connection between two hand tightened plastic parts (8 - 10 lbs of torque) that can expect 45 to 65 lbs of constant water pressure.