In a previous post you indicated there wasn’t even a “click”, but perhaps it’s easier to hear when right next to the solenoid. I’m glad you did check it as I’d suggested originally. There are ignition relays (K7?) off of circuit breaker 36 (far left buss second from bottom), but the auto-resetting breaker and relays would not be my first suspect. Of course be sure the transmission is in Park... I once spent an hour on a boat ramp parking lot under my old coach fruitlessly hunting down a supposed bad starter connection, after neglecting to take the tranny out of gear when I first parked. The neutral safety prevented me starting it.
Sounds more now like the problem all along is actually at the starter. But the batteries need to be fully charged after whatever repairs are attempted at the starter before trying it again. And run down the chassis grounding wires; there could be one or two coming off the starter main body (and maybe one from the starter body to a battery negative post). Where they bolt to the coach frame can be a high-resistance trouble-spot. If the old solenoid is still good, then a newly purchased one may one day be a handy spare.
Joel