Norm, it goes without saying that you and Cynthia have my sympathy.
As soon as I saw your photo on Facebook I called Karl. We agreed that based only on the photo, the fire probably started below the slide. I nominated the transfer switch as the culprit. Karl pointed out that cord reels have "wiper contacts". I think his theory was that if the wipers corrode or wear there will be resistance and resulting heat.
I don't know what cord reel was used in '08. Our the cord reel in our '04 Monterey mechanically failed about year 10. I removed it, took it apart and found broken plastic gears. I don't recall inspecting the wipers but, internally, it seemed cheaply made. I gave up thinking about repairing it and converted to the method used in our previous cheap trailers...coil the cord by hand.
Karl reads this forum and will probably weigh in.