Bill, reading the 12.3 on the Aladdin while driving. When we stopped and plugged into shore power, the amps going to house batts was 60-70 amp for about an hour.
Terry,
You are getting good help here, so I can't add much, if anything!
It has been mentioned many places and you may already know this. But, don't "over work" your alternator. They are designed to quickly replace the energy used when a truck starts and then keep things running. They were not designed to sustain high loads for long periods. According to one long gone Monaco rep, the leading cause of alternator replacements under warranty was charging house batteries that were discharged from dry camping while driving home.
The Monaco rep suggested the long term load caused the alternator to heat up. When hot, the bearing life is shortened which leads to early failure.
The acid test is to touch it! It will be normally warm to the touch, not hot.
The Monaco rep's solution was to run the Onan for charging house batteries for the first hour or so if departing with discharged house batteries.
Marty Schenck recently replaced his Norcold with a Samsung on a 4 house battery system. He paid attention to the differences in electrical load while driving and found it to be negligible. He noted that there may be a marginal difference if the "Ecco" mode is selected on the Samsung fridge.
Based on what Marty showed me, I doubt your fridge is creating an excessive charging load. My hunch is that you are right about an old battery causing the situation. Can you test the various cells with a hydrometer? My second hunch, based on your suggestion the batteries are old, is you have dirty battery terminals.