Here is the rest of the story... am I going nuts???
This morning, I and two of my friends went out to the RV. One of them is a long time RVer, and the other is an excellent mechanic. I talked them through all the things that had happened as I described above. The plan is to check the fluid level on the slide pump, then have one of my friends stand by it while I go to the other side and press the generator slide button. We decided to take this first step before cranking and pulling the RV out of storage where we would have better access. We checked and the fluid level was fine. My mechanic friend who has better hearing stands by the pump, I go to the other side and press the gen out button, I hear the pump as did my friend, and the generator slide moves right out like it always has!!! No delay, no problem! Push the retract side of the button, and in it comes, just like always! I claim my mechanic friend is magic, or my RV likes my RV friend! They both give me a lot of, let's say 'lip'.
I'm happy the generator will go in and out. But for the life of me, I can't understand why it didn't when I tried it a few days ago... The only explanation is that I'm going nuts! My friends quickly agree! I buy them lunch! I think all would agree this is a cheap fix for an RV.
THANKS Fred and Steve for your advice above. Do you have any idea why the gen slide didn't move last week when I tried? Or do you agree with my friends?