Loren,
I am not sure about the temperature and how hot the transmission actually got. When you use the jake brake (which is not a retarder, a retarder is another braking device that resides within the transmission that we do not have) you should not see much of a temperature rise unless the engine for some reason has its temperature rise. The transmission is cooled by the engine coolant so it will nearly mimic the engine coolant temperature. I have noticed that when you engage the jake brake and it invokes a downshift you will remain in that gear until the throttle pedal is used again even though the jake has been turned off. Not sure if that was what you were observing, but if it was that is normal.
Later Ed