I agree with Gerald. And the problem with the beach ball trick or anything that weighs down the material is that it will stretch that material, ultimately making the situation worse in the long run. It occurs to me that if you still wanted to do it, I reckon you could toss a long rope over the topper and tie a rock to each end near ground level, letting the rock weight dampen the flapping. I understand that it may be possible to adjust out the slack on the slide topper via the mechanism, but inquiries a few years ago regarding that didn't bring encouraging responses from techs or Carefree, so it may be hard to find a tech who'd try it.
Fall and winter on the Oregon Coast brings high wind situations - frequently 50-70mph. We simply bring in the slides on the windward side or whichever one(s) seem to be taking a beating. That time of year we usually choose campsites in the trees for some protection. I think the extended slides act like wings, just causing the whole coach to rock more anyway; it's hard to sleep with all the flapping and rocking, so easier just to pull in at least the windward slides at night.
Another problem with anti-flap devices is that if conditions get really super bad, you're going to have to go out in the storm, perhaps on a ladder no less, and remove the things so you can bring in the slides to fully protect them. Not a good situation to put oneself in.
-Joel