Hi Adam, from your description, I think you may have a different system that what I have, the motor I got from the Hennesseys, has a rubber pinch roller that rides on the curtain rail and pulls the curtain open , then pushes it closed, which is wired through the curtain itself. I think the earlier models used a different system, I had a 2000 marquis ,but the motor was missing as well, as for the curtain hanging up, mine was really stiff around the corners as well so I took some silicone spray and soaked a rag, then ran it down both sides of the rail, and now it works awesome.
Sorry I couldn't help much.
Dave