Jim,
I do not think that 12 oz is an excessive amount of weight to balance a tire an wheel assemble that is as heavy as the ones on your coach, but if you want to reduce the amount of weight needed to balance a tire and wheel assembly, you just break the tire bead loose from the wheel and rotate it 180 degrees on the wheel and reinflate it. If the tire is balanced, it should not be the cause of any vibration that you are getting. There are many things that can cause a wheel vibration, and balance is just one of them. The other causes can be excess radial run-out (out of round), excess lateral run-out (wobbles), or an uneven rolling resistance (hard spot). A through analysis by a highly skilled technician is sometimes needed to determine the problem. That was what I did on cars for a portion of my former life, and believe me, it is not always easy.
Gerald