Rex, I'm not sure of your coach model, but my practice would be to watch my Magnum inverter/charger readout panel, and when it went from Bulk Charge to the Absorb Charge cycle, you've reached about 90% of full charge, at least according to my manual. Your voltage should be high through both cycles, as the charger packs electrons back into the batteries - 14.2v - 14.6v. I'm sure Ed or Gerald are more informed on this than me, and may offer different input, but after the charger has been off for 20 minutes or more to dissipate surface charge, if the Alladin or inverter readout give a value of 12.5 volts or more, you are in the 80% range. 12.7v is a full charge, 12.2v is about 50%.
Dick, I changed the diode pack in our sport cruiser's alternator, and in fact rebuilt the whole thing myself once, ca. 1980. I have to agree that, with guidance, it is not difficult, and it was a good learning experience. Corrosion from salt air, as you probably know, was more of a threat than heat.
But with cold Columbia River or San Juan Islands seawater continually cycling through the engine, my boat's 350 Merc engine bay never got particularly hot, so it was easier for the alternator to rid itself of excess heat. The ambient air around our motorhome engines is probably much hotter, giving the alternator windings nowhere to shed heat. As Gerald indicates, I would then surmise that it's the windings insulation that are the most common failure point, as opposed to the electronics, though I'm sure heat is not the diode material's friend either.
Rebuilding windings is not a do-it-yourself project. When the inadequate original Chevy automotive alternator and battery isolator (a simple Ford solenoid) gave up on our old '84 Pace Arrow, I thought, "Well, I know how to rebuild alternators - I'll save some money on this". Not. The burned stator windings dictated a higher output alternator (not just a new stator) and a new electronic isolator, after which replacement I never had problems again in that dept.
Though many boat mechanical theories can translate into motor home technology, they are two different animals operating in different environments.
Joel