Tim's question that started this post is a really good question that is hard to answer without a way of measuring the output current of each source. Gerald's is correct in that you need to take load off the alternator. It was never designed to provide the level of current flow for any extended period of time that a large bank of thirsty batteries can draw.
The load sharing that actually happens between the Xantrex and the alternator is complex when they are both in use. It really depends on where the voltage sensing is taking place for each source, voltage drops in the charge wiring, and the design of the charging regulator circuits in each of the charging sources. The most important load factors are the size of the battery bank and the battery charge state. All of these are players but we will try and boil it down to just worry about the voltage....
The critical time for the alternator would be when the batteries start out at 12.2v. Until the Xantrex can raise the voltage to approach the 14.2V then both the alternator and the Xantrex will be putting out max current during the lower voltage period. If the full current is being put out by the xantrex and the voltage output is at 12.6V at the battery then the alternator will be at max current also. The alternator current will ramp down as the voltage approaches 13.8 V. which is before the Xantrex current will be reduced at 14.2 V during absorption. The thing to remember is that the voltage level will set the current level from both the sources. Critical alternator time is while the voltage is low.
If the batteries are discharged deeply like 12.2V then without a doubt you want to run the generator and the Xantrex first to start the charging. I would consider looking at the Xantrex voltage output level and if I could, let it climb during absorption, until 13.8V is obtained. What is happening is the Xantrex is putting out max current and the voltage on the battery is slowly rising as it stores the current. The battery voltage at the time you start the engine alternator will set the current level that the alternator will provide. Safest bet might be something like this...
1. Generator /Xantrex only until voltage reaches 13.8V or as long as you have time to wait. The higher the voltage the better.
2. Generator/Xantrex and Alternator until Inverter current output drops to 20-30 amps. That means you are in absorption and the alternator should be able to pick up that added load.
3. O.K. to run the alternator alone
This is a reasonable guess as to a rough guideline one might follow to max the alternator life.
Speaking about voltage drops, wiring losses, charging rates and the like check the following out regarding battery wiring. Also very interesting and unexpected.....
http://www.smartgauge.co.uk/batt_con.htmlHope this helps....Later Ed