We're sorry that you've lost, so close together, people you've held dear for so many years, James. We should all be so fortunate, though, to have cherished ones in our lives for such a remarkable length of time. We know you miss them, and no one can totally replace them in your life, but perhaps the new friends you'll meet in the BAC will help fill the void just a little.
I think you've already discovered that there at least 2 great technical minds here, embodied in Ed and Gerald, and they've taken the words out of my mouth in adeptly answering your question. So it only leaves me to proffer words of welcome to the BAC.
We look forward to meeting you one day, welcome your contributions and questions to the Forum, and know you will find it a valuable and enjoyable resource as you become familiar with your coach.

-Joel