Ed et al,
Using the relays and connectors supplied by Daniel Stern will eliminate any voltage loss in the headlight circuit - both high and low beam. The voltage loss can be caused by many things depending on the setup in your particular coach. In my case, the wires from the DC bus to the headlights was just 22ga, far too small to carry the load. In addition, there was some extra resistance in the switch circuit which just made the problem worse. In my initial testing, I was getting just barely over 5 volts at the lamps giving me about 15% of the lumens normally obtained with 12 volts.
The relays are designed to be triggered by the wiring already being used by your headlights and a substantially reduced voltage - as in my case - is still more than enough to trigger the relays. Both the headlight switch and any trigger relay that might be coming from a system in the smartwheel (icc headlight flasher or windshield wiper trigger) will be upstream of the lamps and so will still trigger the voltage relay for the lamps.
The ideal with this system is to have an uninterrupted wire run from the batteries to the relays and use 10 ga wire. That wire run can be made direct from the DC bus in the electrical bay as Gerald said but I would personally do a battery to bus test to see if there is any voltage loss between battery and bus before I used that as my source. In my case, I made the wire run direct from the batteries.
The relays themselves can be obtained from any auto parts store at a very reasonable price as Gerald said however there is a but ...
You should be running that 10 ga wire not only to the relays, but from the relay output to the lamp itself. The female jack that plugs into the back of the lamp is not large enough to accept a wire of that size and very few auto part stores will have a replacement that takes larger wires. That is the beauty of the Daniel Stern kit. He supplies not only the relays and a mount block, but he also supplies the appropriate new jack for the rear of the lamps that accepts 10ga wire. In addition, his kit has a male receiver that will plug into your existing jack for the headlights that runs directly to the relay trigger. You aren't cutting any wires on your coach or anything else. You are just adding the heavier wires for the relays and between the relays and the new jack for the headlights. Then just unplug your current headlight jack, plug it into the relay trigger plug and then plug the new jack into the headlights. Instant light!!!
Any other relays that may have been placed in the circuit to trigger your headlights on will still function as they are all upstream of the lamp plug that is now being used to trigger your new voltage relays.